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Meet Sylvia Chavez of America’s Love Queen in Mission Valley

Today we’d like to introduce you to Sylvia Chavez.

Sylvia, let’s start with your story. We’d love to hear how you got started and how the journey has been so far.
During the darkest moments of my life, I had a mentor. Her name was Adela, I felt so sad and alone, unworthy and unloved. During that time I received an inner message, I needed to become “love”, so I went to Adela and told her: “I want to give love to people, I want to help others, I want to GIVE”.

To my surprise, her answer was: “You cannot give what you don’t have, In order to give love to others, your heart must be full of love and pouring it”. Of course, I didn’t agree with her, I couldn’t see how full of scarcity my heart was at that moment.

It took me years of discovering myself through books, mentors, and coaches to understand what Adela told me.
Because of that journey of self-discovery, I did my own process of H.E.R. (Healing, Empowering and Re-designing).

I realized my heart was broken. I needed to heal it, I needed to heal my seven years old girl inside myself that had been abused, I needed to heal how I felt about myself and my body, I needed to heal my relationship with my Mom and the world, and men. Through the Healing process, I went thru hell back and forth many times, it was painful and so worth it, I learned to surrender and feel the real feelings I was feeling. No more denial, no more numbness, no more limiting beliefs, no more guilt and shame. I felt Empowered! I finally knew who I was.
I recuperated my whole life, my mom, my kids, and I met the Love of My life during the process of Re-designing my life.

I learned what thru love truly is and how to love others completely. By that time, I had finished my Counseling Certification Specialized in Personal development and my Transformational Coaching Certification in Argentina among other things.

In 2014, we decided to move to Paradise San Diego, we absolutely fell in love with this town and the people, we felt immediately at home. We moved to SD with my three daughters and two cases each. That was all we needed. I have two more sons and 1 grandson.

Being an entrepreneur has not been an easy thing, but when you feel the love pouring from your heart, sharing your life with the love of your life and a beautiful family, every challenge becomes an adventure.

I feel happy and loved every single second of every day of my life and that gives me the strength and thrive to share that with the world.

Today, I am a podcaster, a Published Writer, a columnist for Life by Design Magazine, an International Speaker and I had helped hundreds of women and men to find love beyond their wildest dreams… and my mission is just getting started. I want to change the world, my mission is to share my concept of LOVE, a sacred and deep love that is simple, beautiful and joyful, and much more. We had been shown a wrong concept of love, from the movies to the songs, to… even Disney!

According to Psychology Today, only in the USA, 50% of marriages end up in divorce, and the statistics are even worse when it comes to second or third marriages. Why do you think that is happening? Because we choose our partners from a broken heart, from broken families, from pain, from a definition of love that is not real, from a belief system that doesn’t serve us anymore.

I am in a mission to change those statistics, to stop that pain that brakes the hearts of everyone involved in that situation (parents, children, foster kids, etc.), and without any doubt, I can say that H.E.R. is the way, and always, love is the answer.

I’ve been called “America’s Love Doctor”, Love Queen.

Great, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
The main struggles were: to learn to speak Coaching Language in English (my native language is Spanish), to learn everything about all the tech stuff and how to grow my business. To learn about a new way of living, a different modality, so diverse and so amazing. To invest a lot of money in my new business (you don’t know what you don’t know) until our savings were gone and learning that most of all to believe in myself, even when I was starting a new business in a different country at 53 years old. And much more…

Alright – so let’s talk business. Tell us about America’s Love Queen – what should we know?
My business is called: “America’s Love Queen”. I am a Love Coach, Mentor, and Speaker. I am specialed in LOVE and relationships and how to live all your relationships through LOVE. I am also known as “The Love Doctor”. I work mostly with women that have gone through some kind of abuse/trauma/bad relationships so they can find the love their hearts and souls truly desire, without settling.

I’m most proud of the results my clients get when going through my process of H.E.R. The results are real and the transformations are very profound and lasting.

What sets me apart from others is that all the tools that I used in the H.E.R. process, I used them in myself, and I accomplished the results I teach my clients. I am the living proof of what is possible, and I have been living that love for over 15 years, feeling that I love deeply and feel deeply loved 24 x 7, 365 days a year and I know exactly what is needed to accomplish that.

Is there a characteristic or quality that you feel is essential to success?
Many different skills along with a thriving passion and love for others. I have this burning desire in my heart to empower women to be who they truly are, to become who they want to be, without having to fulfill other’s expectations. Women are so powerful and have been abused, beat up and mistreated for Millenials. We’ve been taken for granted and devalue so much and for so long that we ended up believing we were not worthy. And that is not true. Women are the most powerful beings on earth, it is time to learn that, and create equal relationships among men and women, only ruled by LOVE.

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