Today we’d like to introduce you to Scott Silverman.
Hi Scott, can you start by introducing yourself? We’d love to learn more about how you got to where you are today?
“You’re Not God, That Job is Taken” by Scott H. Silverman Empowers Readers to Let Go of the Illusion of Control
In his latest book, “You’re Not God, That Job Is Taken,” Scott H. Silverman guides readers through the transformative journey of embracing personal limitations. With over four decades in recovery and helping others through their struggles, Silverman shares his insights into the myth of control and how letting go can lead to true empowerment.
In a world obsessed with perfection, Scott H. Silverman’s book offers a refreshing perspective. As an author and recovery expert, Scott draws from his personal journey and the lives he’s touched to show that the key to true growth isn’t in controlling everything. It’s in knowing when to ask for help.
“You’re Not God, That Job Is Taken” explores myths surrounding the need for control, offering steps to release the burden of perfectionism. Using stories, examples, and advice, Silverman teaches that embracing limitations leads to stronger connections, peace, and authentic living.
Whether you’re a leader, a parent, or someone struggling with life’s unexpected challenges, this book shows you how letting go of the need to control every outcome can be liberating. It’s about recognizing that none of us has all the answers, and that’s okay. The message is simple: Stop trying to do it all alone.
Scott H. Silverman has spent over forty years working with individuals facing crises and personal struggles, including addiction and trauma recovery. His work is grounded in the belief that real transformation happens when we acknowledge our limits and seek support. This book is for anyone who wants to free themselves from the pressure of perfectionism and create a life of peace, trust, and growth.
About the Author
Scott H. Silverman has over 40 years of experience helping people face addiction and crisis. He’s the founder of Confidential Recovery, offering coaching and outpatient programs for lasting change. His wisdom comes from personal experience of overcoming addiction after a suicide attempt. Now sober, he shares his journey through coaching and speaking nationwide. Whether guiding families or addressing crowds, Scott leads with heart, humor, and honesty. His mission is to help people release what isn’t theirs to carry and cherish what matters most.
We all face challenges, but looking back would you describe it as a relatively smooth road?
Smooth Road. LOL Never really Been on One. As Social Entrepreneur, and Author Starting any project takes careful thoughts and Planning. Barriers to success can be overcome, If one is willing to stick to it. Not Give up and be willing to ask for help and talk with people who have been there and done that.
Timing is important. Having supportive people behind you and beside is Critical. My Family has been that support for me. My wife Michelle is my best friend and Angel of support. My kids Jessica and Gracie always hold my hand…
I hope this helps.
Appreciate you sharing that. What should we know about Confidential Recovery?
The Goal of our San Diego Intensive Outpatient Program
The primary goal of our intensive outpatient treatment program is to help you get sober and stay sober. Our team works to ensure our clients develop the tools and life skills they need for sustainable recovery They do so using a combination of multiple therapeutic modalities, support groups, and complementary treatment methods. A secondary but related goal of IOPs is to help restore clients’ functionality in their lives. As outpatient programs, IOPs are flexible programs that allow clients to return home each day to their own beds. IOPs aim to provide essential support as clients begin to rebuild their lives in the outside world.
A Personalized Treatment Program Will Address Your Specific Needs
We know that when it comes to treatment “one size does not fit all,” and we do not force any single recovery path on our clients.
Our clients come to us with a variety of treatment backgrounds and needs. Some need to continue their recovery with support after “stepping down” from a detox or residential rehab.
Others come to us are “stepping up” their support because they might be struggling with relapse or need more support and structure than individual therapy sessions or outpatient care
We offer flexible scheduling with both day and night sessions available. You will have the option of receiving text message reminders and updates about the outpatient and IOP programming.
Our outpatient and intensive outpatient program may include a variety of therapeutic activities and processes, including:
Mindfulness
Dialectic Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Introduction to 12-Step Programs, SMART Recovery and other community-based recovery programs
We also have facilitators who we partner with who can offer even more of a variety of processes, including:
Individual therapy
Music therapy
Hypnotherapy
Aquatic therapy
Body therapy
Yoga
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
One of the most powerful modalities we use in our treatment program is cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).
CBT is a psychological therapy that enables the patient to recognize thoughts that lead to negative behavior. This is crucial for relapse prevention because it allows recovering patients to connect the influence of triggers and thought patterns with negative behaviors. This is particularly useful in the life of a recovering individual, who faces an ongoing daily decision about “whether or not to relapse.”
With the aid of CBT, you can become more in touch with your thoughts and emotions, and how they influence your behavior. Once you become aware of these habits, you can begin to practice other ways of thinking.
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) effectively treats addiction and trauma by teaching skills to manage intense emotions, tolerate distress, regulate reactions, and build healthy relationships, addressing the core emotional dysregulation and unhealthy coping (often substance use) that stem from past pain. It balances acceptance (validating current feelings, including trauma) with change (learning new, healthier behaviors) to help individuals move from surviving to thriving, creating a life worth living.
Integration of Medication Assisted Treatment (MAT)
Medication-assisted treatment (MAT) is an addiction treatment modality that involves a combination of behavioral therapies, some of which are listed above, alongside prescription medication.
Individuals who are detoxing from opioids and/or alcohol often suffer from severe withdrawal symptoms, which can complicate the recovery process. These symptoms can trigger people to relaps. Prescription drugs such as buprenorphine (Suboxone) and naltrexone can help people get off dangerous drugs with minimal discomfort. These medications reduce painful withdrawal symptoms and mitigate cravings.
During medication-assisted treatment at our IOP, clients engage in behavioral therapies in order to develop the skills and coping tools they need to stay sober. When appropriate, a physician can supervise their withdrawal from their medications. This withdrawal involves a gradual tapering process that is designed to be as smooth as possible
MAT uses only proven, safe, FDA‑approved medications to treat addiction to opioids, alcohol, and methamphetamine. We provide and support medication assisted treatment, which integrates medication to reduce cravings and discomfort.
Coupled with counseling, MAT significantly reduces the rate of relapse. Medi‑Cal, Medicare, and many private insurance plans cover MAT.
This method of supporting treatment that has been proven to greatly increase the chances of recovery. Call our intake team at (619) 452–1200 to discuss your specific needs.
Before we let you go, we’ve got to ask if you have any advice for those who are just starting out?
Follow your HEART. Don’t ever give up on your Dream. Do your Homework. Be willing to ask for help. It’s ok to fail, make mistakes…Gets us to success sooner.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help. It Helps. Most people like to help. But they can’t read your mind.
What I wish I knew when starting out. Is what I shared here.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.confidentialrecovery.com | https://veteransnavigationcenter.org/ | www.yourcrisiscoach.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottshs/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/confidentialrecovery
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/scotthsilverman/
- Twitter: scott h Silverman
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@scotthsilverman
