We’re looking forward to introducing you to Ashley-Marie Pineiro. Check out our conversation below.
Good morning Ashley-Marie, we’re so happy to have you here with us and we’d love to explore your story and how you think about life and legacy and so much more. So let’s start with a question we often ask: What is something outside of work that is bringing you joy lately?
Even though I am a fashion designer by profession, creating clothing has never just been a job for me. It is one of my greatest sources of joy. When I make something for a special event or for my travels, it is not just about fabric and stitches. It is about capturing a feeling and preserving a moment before it even happens. I imagine the setting, the energy of the night, the way the light might touch the fabric, and I design for that memory in advance. Even after years in the industry, that magic still feels brand new.
Socially, I have been drawn to spaces that feed my spirit instead of simply filling my calendar. Creative and wellness events in San Diego have been such a gift. There is something rare about walking into a room full of people who truly want to connect, share ideas, and support each other without pretense. I leave feeling lighter, more seen, and deeply inspired to show up for my own dreams.
On the adventure side, I have been in full travel planning mode. I am not just booking flights but searching for hidden gems that will make the experience unforgettable. I love finding little cafes tucked away on side streets, markets full of life, and beaches only the locals talk about. And of course, I envision what I will wear in each place. It is not about vanity, it is about merging art with experience. Wearing something I have created in a place I once dreamed about feels like a celebration of both who I am and where I am going.
Then there are my simple joys, the moments that ground me in the midst of all that movement. My mornings have become sacred. A warm cup of tea, a few minutes of meditation, the slow light filling the room, and permission to simply be before the pace of the day begins.
What has been bringing me joy lately is this balance. Pouring my creativity into pieces that carry meaning, surrounding myself with people who inspire me, chasing adventures that expand my perspective, and holding onto the quiet rituals that remind me to breathe. It has shown me that a fulfilling life is not about choosing between the big moments and the small ones. It is about letting them exist together, allowing them to feed each other, and keeping yourself fully awake to the story you are living.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Ashley-Marie, and I am a fashion designer based in San Diego. I’m the founder of House of Ladera, a brand built on handmade, made-to-order fashion that blends modern style with deep cultural and personal storytelling.
House of Ladera is named after my grandmother, who raised me and taught me the resilience, creativity, and heart that are at the core of everything I make. Every piece is designed to be more than just clothing. It is a wearable story that connects to confidence, authenticity, and heritage. I often create using sustainable practices like upcycling and limited-run production, so each design feels intentional and one of a kind.
Beyond fashion, my work is about building a positive community, connecting with people through creative freedom, celebrating individuality, and showing that fashion can be both beautiful and deeply meaningful. I am currently exploring new collaborations that merge art, culture, and sustainability, while also expanding House of Ladera into media, creative consulting, and unique brand storytelling. My goal has always been to create more than garments. I want to create experiences, conversations, and connections that leave a lasting impact.
Great, so let’s dive into your journey a bit more. Who taught you the most about work?
My mom taught me the most about work. She is an immigrant from the Philippines who built a life here through sheer resilience and sacrifice. After separating from my father, she became a single mother, not out of choice but out of necessity to protect us from the cycle of abuse and the chaos of his drug addiction.
I watched her work sixteen-hour shifts as a psychiatric nurse and supervisor, sometimes leaving before the sun set and returning long after it came up. She carried the weight of two parents, the financial burden of running a household, and the emotional toll of starting over while raising children in a country that was not her own.
From her, I learned that work is not just about earning a paycheck. It can be an act of survival, a form of protection, and a way of creating stability when the world around you feels unstable. She showed me that strength is not loud; it is relentless. It is showing up, day after day, no matter how heavy the load, because the people you love are counting on you.
Her work ethic is the foundation for how I approach my own goals today. When things get hard, I think of her, an immigrant woman standing on her feet for hours on end, holding a broken family together through sheer will, and I am reminded that perseverance is in my blood.
What have been the defining wounds of your life—and how have you healed them?
The biggest wounds of my life haven’t always been visible, but they’ve shaped every part of who I am. Being a first-generation American, raised by a single filipino mother, meant growing up surrounded by stories of survival and deep trauma; substance abuse, violence and assault in different forms, and the constant pressure to achieve the American dream. Those stories weren’t just background noise; they became the foundation of how I understood the world. I learned early that life was not promised to be gentle.
Growing up without a father left a deeper wound than I ever wanted to admit. His absence shaped the way I viewed men and trust. It planted doubt in me, made me wonder if the people I let close would always eventually leave. That gap in my life made me build armor, but it also made me crave love with a kind of intensity I’ve carried ever since.
Being multicultural only added another layer of complexity. I often found myself in the middle of cultures that didn’t fully reflect me, creating an identity crisis that left me questioning where I belonged. I was never just one thing; I was always both, always many, and sometimes that made me feel like I was never enough of anything.
As a child, I was often overlooked and silenced. My softness, my questions, my need for expression were quieted by the noise of survival happening around me. That’s why art became my escape. With a pencil, a needle, or a scrap of fabric, I could finally speak without words. Creating became my language, and fashion grew into the way I reclaimed my presence. In art, I was never invisible; I was infinite. Art and creating has always felt like magic to me.
And yet, perception has always felt like a cage. People have looked at me and decided who I was before I ever got the chance to speak. Too strong. Too independent. Too intimidating. Too much. Or sometimes, not enough. That disconnect between who I know myself to be and who the world assumes I am carved one of my deepest wounds. Imposter syndrome grew inside that gap, making me second-guess even my greatest accomplishments.
Healing, for me, has been about rewriting those narratives. I’ve learned that perception isn’t permanent, and imposter syndrome is often just evidence of growth; that I’m stretching into spaces bigger than the ones that were ever imagined for me. Each runway, each collection, each piece I create becomes proof that I belong here, not because someone told me I did, but because I built this space myself.
My wounds haven’t disappeared; they’ve transformed. They’ve made me resilient, empathetic, and unafraid to tell my story. They’ve taught me that legacy isn’t about erasing pain… it’s about turning it into something that empowers others. I am not just the child of survival stories; I am their continuation and their reimagining.
I am proof that what was once silenced can now speak loudly. I am proof that what was once overlooked can create something unforgettable. And I am proof that even the deepest wounds can become the very fabric of a life stitched together with purpose, love, and strength
I think our readers would appreciate hearing more about your values and what you think matters in life and career, etc. So our next question is along those lines. Where are smart people getting it totally wrong today?
We live in a world where everyone is sprinting, but almost no one is arriving.
Lately, I’ve been thinking about how often smart people get it wrong. Not because they don’t have ideas, not because they don’t work hard, but because they confuse speed with progress. Everywhere I look, it feels like everyone’s chasing the next viral moment, the next shortcut, the next quick win. And for a while, I was tempted by it too.
When you’re building something that matters, whether it’s art, a business, or even a relationship, you realize that the things that last aren’t built overnight. They’re not hacks or trends. They’re slow, deliberate, stitched together with patience and intention.
As a designer, I see this every day. I can spend hours hand-stitching one bikini, adjusting seams that no one else would even notice. It’s the kind of work that doesn’t trend on TikTok, doesn’t get a million likes, and definitely doesn’t feel “fast.” But when someone puts it on and feels beautiful, confident, and seen? That’s when I’m reminded, this is progress. That’s the kind of work that leaves a mark.
The problem is, smart people (and I include myself here) fall into the same traps:
-We confuse going fast with going somewhere.
-We let numbers mean more than meaning.
-We glamorize the end result instead of the process.
-We chase scale before soul.
But the stuff that actually lasts? It takes time. It’s direction. It’s patience. It’s a craft. It’s trust. It’s all the boring, unsexy work nobody claps for in the moment.
Speed might get attention, but intention builds something that outlives you.
And if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s that you can’t fast-track legacy. But you can choose to slow down and build something worth remembering.
Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: What do you understand deeply that most people don’t?
I’ve learned that life isn’t linear. It doesn’t move in a straight line, and neither do we. My life has taught me that growth feels less like climbing a ladder and more like alchemy… like turning every chapter into something new.
Most people see growth as checking boxes or hitting milestones. But for me, it’s always been about reinvention. Every phase of my life has required me to let go of an old version of myself so I could become someone more honest, more aligned. Sometimes planned, sometimes forced, but always meaningful.
I grew up without a lot, so I learned to sew out of necessity. I didn’t realize back then that those moments would eventually turn into a brand and a creative purpose. And every time I moved, whether it was across states or across the world, I had to figure out who I was becoming all over again. Those experiences shaped me in ways I couldn’t have predicted.
Heartbreak taught me what kind of love actually feels healthy. Trauma taught me how to turn pain into something creative… whether it’s fashion, poetry, or storytelling. Being misunderstood pushed me to understand myself more deeply. And the chaos I used to avoid is now part of my design process. It all became raw material I could build something from.
A lot of people think they’re supposed to “get through” things. But I’ve had to learn how to turn things into something, whether that’s a new chapter, a new creative direction, or a new version of myself.
I also understand the difference between attention and genuine connection. There’s a big difference between someone liking you and someone actually getting you. I’ve always been someone who wants alignment, not just validation. Chemistry is fun, but coherence is what feels real.
And honestly… I’ve learned to accept that I’m a mix of things. I can be soft and intimidating, romantic and strategic, goofy and deep. I don’t try to fit into one box anymore. I just let myself be all of it.
But the biggest thing I understand is that we’re all building a legacy, even when we don’t realize it. Every choice I make — creatively, emotionally, in work, in relationships– is part of the future version of myself I’m creating. And I try to choose intentionally, because I owe that to the girl I used to be.
Most people go with the flow. I’m learning how to build my life on purpose. And that’s changed everything for me.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashley.pinz
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleypineiro/
- Twitter: https://www.threads.com/@ashley.pinz
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Image Credits
Ryan Mitchell Fong; Anthony Harris
